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big love Coaching & Mentorship

For Women Who Are Done Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men - And Ready to Build the Secure Love They Deserve.


Only 6 spots available per quarter. 
Price increasing to £2500 on April 1st.

ENROLL NOW

You're Smart, Self-Aware and Tired of Dating Men Who Can't Meet You Emotionally.

 

Where you are now is one side of the bridge. Where you want to be - in a relationship that feels calm, mutual, secure - is the other side of the bridge.

Most women I work with have attempted to cross this bridge before. They have:

  • Done the journaling
  • Talked about their childhood in therapy
  • Read books on Attachment Theory

But what they haven't had is real-time, in-the-moment support to navigate the actual triggers, the date debriefs, the old protectors, and the charming avoidants that show up along the way.

That's what this mentorship gives you. This is the bridge - and I walk it with you.

We don't just walk across - we burn the bridge behind you.

Because the version of you who shrank herself to be loved?

She got you this far - and we honour her. But she's no longer in charge.

You've

  • Intellectualised your patterns but haven't yet fully embodied the change. 
  • Known what you should do but freeze or second-guess yourself when the moment arrives. 
  • Given the benefit of the doubt and more time to men who ended up proving your initial gut instinct right.
  • Been "working on yourself" for years but keep attracting the same dynamic.
  • Exhausted yourself managing anxiety instead of feeling genuinely safe.
  • Second-guessed yourself constantly, even when your gut is screaming.

So we:

  • Work at the nervous system level where real transformation happens. 

  • Practice in real-time until your body trusts the new response.
  • Identify and disrupt the invisible pattern that's been running the show
  • Build actual safety in your system, not just coping strategies.

  • Restore the self-trust that lets you know—and act on—what's true

Your last messy breakup wasn't a mistake...

It was a map.

We use your past patterns, your heartbreak, your triggers - all of it - as valuable data. All of it is important information that guides your return to yourself. We calibrate your nervous system to the safe, secure relationship you desire. We clear the hidden sabotage patterns and align your energy with the kind of love that can actually meet you.

"Big news!! We just bought a house together! I feel like my whole world right now is just another level! Thank you for being my number-one cheerleader!"

Helen, AUS
Introducing

Big Love Coaching & Mentorship

For women who are ready to stop second-guessing their gut and be fully available to receive aligned love that truly meets them.

Proven roadmap

The exact framework that's helped hundreds of women break anxious attachment patterns and attract secure love.

8 Private Sessions 

We work through your specific triggers, dating situations, and sticky points in real-time. We release the past and get crystal clear on the relationship you are calling in.

Private Community

Connect with other high-achieving women who get it - no more feeling like you're the only one who struggles with this.

Learn at Your Own Pace

Video modules you can revisit whenever you need a reminder or refresh on how to embody what you have learned.

Here's what you'll learn

Everything you need to achieve your goal

Module 1

Know Yourself


Understanding your attachment story, identifying your patterns, and recognising what you actually need (and how to trust yourself when it matters most).
Become highly attuned to your own intuition and inner guidance.

Module 2

Release the Past


Here's where we let go of all that sh*t that dimmed your shine. We identify any lingering events from the past that still have an emotional charge over you and lovingly release them on a mind, body and energetic level so that you can move forward unencumbered by the past.

Module 3

Permission to Shine


Rewiring limiting beliefs and aligning your assumptions to the outcomes you desire. Setting boundaries that stick and giving yourself full permission to receive your desires - and the capacity to hold them.

Module 4

Communication & Alignment Mastery


Learn the art of gentle communication where both people feel seen, heard and understood. Understand the energetic principles that give you the aligned advantage to create the life and love of your dre

The Ripple Effect

Your life after taking this course...

The reason Big Love exists is because my original signature program, Align & Attract, evolved. 

After coaching hundreds of women, it became clear: This work was never just about attracting a partner. It was about who they became in the process. It was about the ripple effects. Women who came to heal heartbreak, left:

  • Getting pay rises
  • Starting businesses
  • Setting boundaries with family 
  • Saying yes to their desires
  • Quitting jobs that drained them
  • Finally feeling comfortable in their own skin 
  • Saying yes to more than love - saying yes to themselves

Because the same energy that says "I deserve more in love" is the same energy that transforms everything else too.

Big Love is the natural evolution of that process. 

Andrea, AUS

"The coaching and techniques I went through with Laura have hands down been responsible for the biggest shifts I've made in the 18 years I've been doing self-work. 

We had many conversations around how I saw myself as a woman. I'd held this belief that I was very masculine, even down to my short hair and I had largely held the masculine role in relationships.

I thought I had to be strong, both physically and emotionally so that I couldn't be taken advantage of, disappointed or left.  Of course, that never worked out for me, hence my desire to find out why and do something about it. I now have a magnificent relationship with my dream man and feel safe in expressing my femininity."

Kate, UK

"Now at the age of 40, I look at my reflection in the mirror and I see me, the person I am meant to be!

Thank you for making your way into my life, Laura!
"

investent and enrolment
This is a high-touch, 3 month private mentorship. There are two ways to begin:

Pay in Full

£2222

  • 8 Private Coaching Sessions (45 min via Zoom)
  • Email + Telegram support between sessions
  • Access to a training library of modules and resources
  • Invitations to Masterclasses 
START YOUR TRANSFORMATION

3 payments of

£750

  • 8 Private Coaching Sessions (45 min via Zoom)
  • Email + Telegram support between sessions
  • Access to a training library of modules and resources
  • Invitations to Masterclasses 
START YOUR TRANSFORMATION

Meet your Coach

Hi, I'm Laura Forbes

I'm a relationship coach, writer, and the creator of Quit Dating Idiots.
I help women break their dating patterns, regulate their nervous system, and build relationships that actually feel like home - not hard work.

My work blends:

  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming
  • Attachment psychology
  • Pattern disruption & clarity coaching
  • Emotional resourcing
  • Aligned decision-making
  • The SAFE Attraction Formula

I am passionate about supporting women to create emotionally safe and fulfilling relationships and cultivating lives that feel expansive and aligned.

 

But it wasn't always this way...

 

Ten years ago, I was the woman who kept choosing men who couldn't meet me emotionally. I'd attracted a strong of unavailable partners and always convinced myself I was "not enough" or if I just gritted my teeth and held on to "potential" things would work out. They never did.

I spent years in therapy, read every attachment and self-help book I could get my hands on and could intellectually understand and explain my patterns. But I still kept overriding my body's signals and repeating the same old patterns with different people. 

The breakthrough came when I stopped trying to just think my way into a different outcome and started doing the somatic, nervous system work that actually creates change. That's when I truly learned to trust my own inner guidance and intuition instead of overriding it and second-guessing it. And that is when everything shifted - and when I knew I had to teach other women this path.

This is possible for you too.

Your Path to Big Love

1. claim your spot

Hit the enrollment button and secure your place. You'll immediately receive your welcome email with access to everything - the portal and your booking link for our first session.

2. begin your transformation

Dive into the modules, book your first session. This is where the real work begins - and you won't be doing it alone.

3. Become the woman who attracts secure love

You stop repeating the same patterns. You no longer entertain emotionally immature or unavailable men. You trust yourself enough to recognise - and choose - partners who can actually meet you.

LET'S DO THIS

Our money-back, satisfaction guarantee

Try our program for 7 days, risk-free

If after your first session you feel this isn’t the right fit, email Laura within 7 days and you’ll receive a full refund. No questions asked.

This is for you if:

  • You're post-breakup, but still looping or haunted by "what-ifs"
  • You keep attracting unavailable or misaligned partners
  • You know better - but still override your gut when dating
  • You're successful in life, but love feels like your blind spot
  • You're ready to be done with crumbs, and open to something deeper

This isn't for you if:

  • You're looking for quick fixes or generic dating advice
  • You're not open to inner work or discomfort
  • You're not ready to invest time, energy, or money into real change

Kate, AUS

"It’s the best, most life changing thing I’ve ever done for myself. I feel like I’ve shifted so much heavy and low vibrational energy – stuff that’s been stagnant and holding me back for a long time. My partner is completely different to the people I’ve been in relationships with before - and it’s the relationship I visualized and manifested through all the work we did."

Mia, US

"Remember when we would describe my 'delicious' man? Who knew I'd manifest someone better than I had even hoped for! Delicious 1000% and now we have a baby on the way!  I will never grow tired of thanking you, Laura!! "

Ready? Big Love is waiting.

Not just the relationship. But the version of you who feels safe to fully receive it. This is the bridge. Let's walk it together.

START YOUR BIG LOVE JOURNEY

Frequently Asked Questions

Petra, Ireland

"Since finishing the program, I've met the partner of my dreams. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend this program to anyone. Invest in yourself. You won't regret it."

Claudia, UK

"When I joined the program, yeah I wanted to stop dating idiots but Laura's program is all about getting into alignment with yourself and I REALLY wanted that. I'd been through a tough few years and I felt lost, personally and professionally. 

My confidence was at rock bottom and I had no faith in myself.  
Laura helped me put myself back together, work out who I am, what I want and what small steps I needed to take to get to where I want to be. Within the year I have launched a dress and over skirt and I am excited to work on lots more. I am happier now than I have ever been because I love, trust and respect myself."

Ready to achieve your goal? Choose your payment plan:

Pay in Full

£2222

  • 8 Private Coaching Sessions (45 min via Zoom)
  • Email + Telegram support between sessions
  • Access to a training library of modules and resources
  • Invitations to Masterclasses 
BEGIN NOW

3 payments of

£750

  • 8 Private Coaching Sessions (45 min via Zoom)
  • Email + Telegram support between sessions
  • Access to a training library of modules and resources
  • Invitations to Masterclasses 
BEGIN NOW

"I have healed past trauma and attracted a £13k pay rise and my dream partner! Laura is fabulous, she'll be in your corner, give you direction and help you align the f*** out of your life!
It's worth every penny!
"

emily, uk