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Tired of getting hurt by avoidant 🌵? You're in the right place.

Right now, you think you've got an anxious attachment style, your "picker is broken," and there are no good men left.


The truth?

You're likely making the #1 mistake 99% of my new clients are making - and it's quielty repelling the very partnership you desire. 

Inside The Big Love Blueprint I'll show you exactly what it is and how to unf*ck it so you break the pattern of dating Peter Pans with great chemistry who "Just have a lot going on right now," and who convieniently forget to tell you that they're "Not ready for anything serious," until you're two months into dating and already emotionally invested.

UNF*CK MY LOVE LIFE → FOR ONLY £27

 

The proven formula for unf*cking your love life

 

After coaching hundreds of women around the world, I kept seeing the same patterns that were f*cking the love lives of high-functioning women and keeping them from meeting the adoring, committed partners they were looking for.

In this two-hour training, I'll show you the seven shifts I worked on with all of my private, high-level clients and the exact visualisation process that reliably produces results like these:

"He stepped right out of my visualisations and into my life." - Kate, AUS

"Remember when we would describe my 'delicious' man? Who knew I'd manifest someone better than I'd even hoped for? Delicious 1000% and now we have a baby on the way!" - Mia, USA

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A Sneak Peek Inside The Big Love Blueprint

Here's exactly what's waiting for you inside:

 

Why Nothing Else Has Worked:

You've tried their playbook.

❌ Go on more dates - "dating is a numbers game!"

❌ Stop being so picky - "date outside your type!"

❌ Give people a chance - "don't rule them out so quickly!"

❌ Try to find a needle in a haystack - "settle for Mr Good Enough!"

And still... 
You end up overthinking, questioning yourself, going above and beyond and not getting the same energy in return.

Most traditional dating advice isn't made for you.

It teaches you how to date better - not how to attune to your own needs, trust what you're experiencing and make aligned decisions from your own discernment.

You're handed generic advice and expected to apply it to the nuanced, emotional reality of actually liking someone.

No wonder the pattern keeps repeating.

The Big Love Blueprint shows you how to recognise when you're overriding yourself, reality-check what's actually happening calmy and objectively, and make decisions from self-trust and discernment - even when the chemistry is strong or things start feeling uncertain.

What's Included

Inside The Big Love Blueprint, you'll get:

🩵 Your Brain's Missing Instruction Manual
Understand what happens between his delayed response time and the sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach that turns into an anxiety spiral - so that you can interrupt the pattern and feel calm and grounded as you assess the situation for what it is - not what it could be.

🪞 The Reality Check
The simple, repeatable process for separating facts from fiction, intuition from anxiety and fear-based decisions from aligned action - so that you don't need to send five 10-minute voice notes to your friend trying to decode what his "work's just really busy" text actually means.

❤️‍🔥 The Seven Shifts
The seven ways women unwittingly hold themselves out of alignment with the relationship they actually want - and how to remedy them so that you feel absolutely no pull or desire to entertain the "how's it going?" text when the ghoster you had great chemistry with inevitably pops back up in three months.

💫 Your Personal Big Love Blueprint
A practical roadmap for knowing exactly what you're looking for and staying aligned with the partnership you desire  - so you don't waste another three months hoping Mr Almost Right finally fulfils his potential.

YES, I WANT THE BIG LOVE BLUEPRINT!

Dating is not a numbers game.
It's an alignment game.

 

This is the love reset smart women come to me for.

I'm the relationship coach women come to when they know something isn't right - but can't quite trust themselves enough to act on what they already know.

I've lived these patterns myself. Years of people-pleasing, suppressing my own needs and wearing the Cool Girl mask left me so far from myself that I had to learn how to come back home - and rebuild my self-trust from the ground up.

The Big Love Blueprint is the exact recalibration I use with my 1:1 clients to help women go from single for 9 years to meeting their partner within 4 months, from stuck in limerence over an avoidant discard to laughing when she sees him across the street two years later while she's with her partner and baby... and from constantly over-functioning in relationships to being with someone who still consistently finds ways to surprise and delight her two years in.

And now? I'm handing it to you - for £27.

Because I believe you didn't come here to build a beautiful life just to settle for crumbs in love.

You're not here to survive on rations when there's a whole f*cking banquet waiting for you.

UNF*CK YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR JUST £27

This is for you if:

💬 "I've built a great life. I just want someone to share it with." But you keep entertaining men who can't meet you where you are.

💬 Keep being told, "You're amazing," but somehow they still don't choose you. 

💬 You've tried therapy, screenshotted the Instagram quotes, listened to podcasts and "worked on yourself" - but still find the same disappointing dating dynamics repeating.

💬 You're tired of having old abandonment wounds reactivated and starting to wonder whether the kind of love you want actually exists.

💬 You love your own company. But when the weekend rolls around, you'd really love someone to share it with.

I'M SO IN!
 
 

"Coaching with Laura is the best thing you'll ever do! It helps you see things and yourself so differently. You learn to put yourself first, love yourself more deeply and reliably than the man you're upset about is loving you. A year on, I'm a different woman in all aspects of my life."

SARAH

 

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About your coach

Laura Forbes is a relationship coach, author, and the woman behind Quit Dating Idiots. For more than a decade, she's helped women break the patterns that keep them disconnected from themselves - rebuilding self-trust, strengthening boundaries, and creating relationships and lives that feel aligned and fulfilling.

Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Laura helps women stop second-guessing, recognise what's really keeping them stuck in love, and stop overriding their own standards and instincts just to make a relationship work.

Her work combines coaching with deep emotional work to help women create relationships that can actually meet them - without shrinking, settling, or pretending crumbs are enough.

Ready to unf*ck
your love life?

HELL YEAH, LET'S DO THIS!