❤️🔥 If you're done talking yourself in circles, ready to trust yourself again, and willing to make different choices when it matters - welcome home.
You've been told the problem is that you've got an anxious attachment style and you choose the wrong men.
It's not.
The real problem is what happens when you finally meet someone you really like...
And suddenly you start negotiating your non-negotiables, overriding your gut and letting chemistry call the shots.
The Big Love Blueprint shows you exactly how to stay anchored in your own discernment so you can stay calm, clear-headed and trust yourself - even when the chemistry is strong or the communication pattern changes unexpectedly.
"Coaching with Laura helped me understand my behaviour in dating and why I was drawn to incompatible men. It made me recognise where I'd been undervaluing myself and overriding my instincts.
It also made me feel less alone - like I wasn't 'crazy', just stuck in patterns I didn't yet understand. Within months, I met the most amazing partner - someone I might have overlooked before doing this work."
JESS
Why Nothing Else Has Worked:
You've tried their playbook.
❌ Go on more dates - "dating is a numbers game!"
❌ Stop being so picky - "date outside your type!"
❌ Give people a chance - "don't rule them out so quickly!"
❌ Try to find a needle in a haystack - "settle for Mr Good Enough!"
And still...
You end up overthinking, questioning yourself, going above and beyond and not getting the same energy in return.
Most traditional dating advice isn't made for you.
It teaches you how to date better - not how to attune to your own needs, trust what you're experiencing and make decisions from your own discernment.
You're handed generic advice and expected to apply it to the nuanced, emotional reality of actually liking someone.
No wonder the pattern keeps repeating.
The Big Love Blueprint shows you how to recognise when you're overriding yourself, reality-check what's actually happening, and make decisions from self-trust and discernment - even when the chemistry is strong or things start feeling uncertain.
What's Included
Inside The Big Love Blueprint, you'll get:
🩵 Your Brain's Missing Instruction Manual
Understand what happens between stimulus and response - so that you can make changes that stick at a subconscious level and break old patterns for good.
🪞 The Reality Check
The simple, repeatable process for separating facts from fiction, intuition from anxiety and fear-based decisions from alignment action.
❤️🔥 The Seven Shifts
The seven places women most commonly override themselves in dating - from chemistry to compatibility, performance to authenticity, indecision to self-trust, and more - so you can spot your own pattern in real time and know exactly what to do to create a different outcome.
💫 Your Big Love Blueprint
A practical personal blueprint for your non-negotiables, how to identify your tell-tale signs of self-abandonment and anchor your north star for the relationship you're available for.
💚 The Blueprint in Action
See exactly how to use the process when the chemistry is strong, the communication changes or you're suddenly questioning everything - so you can take aligned action.
Throw away the old dating rulebook. It's time to write your own rules.
Dating is not a numbers game.
It's an alignment game.
This is the love reset smart women come to me for.
I'm the relationship coach women come to when they know something isn't right - but can't quite trust themselves enough to act on what they already know.
I've lived these patterns myself. Years of people-pleasing, suppressing my own needs and wearing the Cool Girl mask left me so far from myself that I had to learn how to come back home - and rebuild my self-trust from the ground up.
The Big Love Blueprint is the exact recalibration I use with my 1:1 clients to help women go from single for 9 years to meeting their partner within 4 months, from stuck in limerence over an avoidant discard to laughing when she sees him across the street two years later while she's with her partner and baby... and from constantly over-functioning in relationships to finally being with someone who shows up for them.
And now? I'm handing it to you - for £27.
Because I believe you didn't come here to build a beautiful life just to settle for crumbs in love.
You're not here to survive on rations when there's a whole fucking banquet waiting for you.
This is for you if:
💬 "I've built a great life. I just want someone to share it with." But you keep entertaining men who can't meet you where you are.
💬 Keep being told, "You're amazing," but somehow they still don't choose you.
💬 You've tried therapy, screenshotted the Instagram quotes, listened to podcasts and "worked on yourself" - but still find yourself repeating the same old dynamics.
💬You're tired of dating disappointments and starting to wonder whether the kind of love you want actually exists.
💬 You love your own company. But when the weekend rolls around, you'd really love someone to share it with.
"Coaching with Laura is the best thing you'll ever do! It helps you see things and yourself so differently. You learn to put yourself first, love yourself more deeply and reliably than the man you're upset about is loving you. A year on, I'm a different woman in all aspects of my life."
SARAH
Frequently Asked Questions
IS THE BIG LOVE BLUEPRINT FOR ME?
WILL THIS WORK IF I'VE ALREADY DONE A LOT OF SELF-WORK?
Is this going to repeat what I already know?
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About your coach
Laura Forbes is a relationship coach, author, and the woman behind Quit Dating Idiots. For more than a decade, she's helped women break the patterns that keep them disconnected from themselves - rebuilding self-trust, strengthening boundaries, and creating relationships and lives that feel aligned and fulfilling.
Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Laura helps women stop second-guessing, recognise what's really keeping them stuck in love, and stop overriding their own standards and instincts just to make a relationship work.
Her work combines coaching with deep emotional work to help women create relationships that can actually meet them - without shrinking, settling, or pretending crumbs are enough.
