THE HOUSE OF BIG LOVE
Create the Big Love you've always wanted - without abandoning yourself to get it.
Imagine feeling completely at home in yourself - and building relationships that meet you there.
Where you feel seen, heard and understood.
Where you feel safe to be yourself, express what you want and need, and have relationships that feel as good as the rest of your life.
❌ No more analysing every text, or freaking out when you notice a change in communication pattern.
❌ No more holding out for potential while reality continues to disappoint you.
❌ No more negotiating your needs because the chemistry is "so intense".
The House of Big Love shows you a different way to love.
One where you don't have to shrink yourself, override your needs, play the "cool girl" or bend over backwards just to keep someone.
You're not here to spend your life imagining the relationship you want.
You're here to start living it.
Claudia, UK:
"When I joined the program, yeah I wanted to stop dating idiots but Laura's program is all about getting into alignment with yourself and I REALLY wanted that.
I'd been through a tough few years and I felt lost, personally and professionally.
My confidence was at rock bottom and I had no faith in myself. Laura helped me put myself back together, work out who I am, what I want and what small steps I needed to take to get to where I want to be. Within the year I have launched a dress and over skirt and I am excited to work on lots more. I am happier now than I have ever been because I love, trust and respect myself."
Inside the House of Big Love, you'll:
🪞 Get to Know and Understand Yourself on a Whole New Level.
You'll feel so deeply aligned with who you are, what you want and what you need that you wouldn't dream of abandoning yourself for someone else.
❤️🔥 Master the Art of Emotional Alchemy
You'll learn how to process what you're feeling and work with your emotions rather than being run by them, and stop letting the past dictate your present and future.
🧭 Date with Discernment
Get crystal clear on what you want and what you are no longer available for so that you can make aligned decisions based on reality rather than fantasy, fear or potential - even when the chemistry is insane!
👑 Practice the Art of Embodiment
Until what you want feels natural and inevitable.
☎️ Get real-time support
We'll work closely together over three months so that you create change on an identity and nervous system level and feel supported every step of the way.
Helen, AUS
“Oh my god Laura! My lifeeeeeeee right now! I’m like an annoying Cheshire Cat!
I’ve been acting up unofficially in my manager's role and they’ve recognized my work and paid me the extra $$$ for the work I’ve been doing. So, I’ve gone from Social Worker to a Co-Ordinator to Acting Team Leader in less than 3 months!
My dating life is also unrecognisable!
SEND HELP because the alignment feels are real and I can’t handle how incredible my own life is right now!!”
The Ripple Effect
Your life after Big Love...
The reason The House of Big Love exists is because my original signature program, Align & Attract, evolved.
After coaching hundreds of women around the world, it became clear this work was never just about attracting a partner. It was about who they became in the process. It was about the ripple effects. Women who came to heal heartbreak, left:
- Getting pay rises
- Starting businesses and lauching passion projects
- Confidently setting boundaries with family
- Saying yes to their desires
- Quitting jobs that drained them
- Finally feeling comfortable in their own skin
- Saying yes to more than love - saying yes to themselves
Because when you truly feel at home in yourself and can show up as your authentic self in your relationships?
✨You can sit across from your date feeling relaxed because you're not wondering whether they like you. You're paying attention to whether you like them - and whether they have the qualities, values and character you've decided matter to you.
✨You no longer spiral for weeks when someone disappears or lets you down. You acknowledge the situation without internalising the rejection. You process what's coming up for you, and recognise that someone who behaves that way isn't compatible with the Big Love you're looking for.
✨ You trust yourself to walk away the moment your body tells you something is off. You don't need to override your gut, collect more evidence or give someone the benefit of the doubt before you trust yourself to make an aligned decision.
✨ You ask for what you need without stressing and rehearsing the conversation in your head for two weeks first. You can express your needs, standards and boundaries clearly - and trust yourself to handle whatever comes next.
Kate, AUS:
"It’s the best, most life-changing thing I’ve ever done for myself.
I feel like I’ve shifted so much heavy and low vibrational energy – stuff that’s been stagnant and holding me back for a long time. My partner is completely different to the people I’ve been in relationships with before - and it’s the relationship I visualized and manifested through all the work we did."
Mia, USA:
"Remember when we would describe my 'delicious' man? Who knew I'd manifest someone better than I had even hoped for! Delicious 1000% and now we have a baby on the way! I will never grow tired of thanking you, Laura!!"
"Now at the age of 40, I look at my reflection in the mirror and I see me, the person I am meant to be!
Thank you for making your way into my life, Laura!"
Kate, UK
Here's exactly what's waiting for you inside The House of Big Love
The Work
Know Yourself
Understanding your attachment story, identifying your patterns, and recognising what you actually need (and how to trust yourself when it matters most).
Become highly attuned to your own intuition and inner guidance so that you can date with discernment - even when fear, scarcity or uncertainty are present.
The Work
Release the Past
Here's where we let go of all that sh*t that dimmed your shine. We identify any lingering events from the past that still have an emotional charge over you and lovingly release them on a mind, body and energetic level so that you can move forward unencumbered by the past.
The Work
Permission to Shine
Rewiring limiting beliefs and aligning your assumptions to the outcomes you desire. Setting boundaries that stick and giving yourself full permission to receive your desires - and the capacity to hold them.
The Work
Communication & Alignment Mastery
Learn the art of gentle communication where both people feel seen, heard and understood. Understand the energetic principles that give you the aligned advantage to create the life and love you've imagined.
Petra, Ireland:
"Since finishing the program, I've met the partner of my dreams.
I wouldn't hesitate to recommend this program to anyone. Invest in yourself. You won't regret it."
Bee, UK:
"I've done therapy for years but never opened up like this.
The process helped me move through past patterns and feel aligned with who I want to be - not who my insecurity made me."
Peek Inside The House of Big Love.
Emily, UK:
"I have healed past trauma and attracted a £13k pay rise and my dream partner! Laura is fabulous, she'll be in your corner, give you direction and help you align the f*** out of your life!
It's worth every penny!"
Ready to step into your Big Love Era?
Choose your INVESTMENT:
Why this works (even if you've tried everything else)
You've read the books on attachment styles. You've learned about red flags and boundaries. You've done more therapy, journalling and self-work than anyone you know.
And now you're wondering if maybe...
❤️🔥 You're just anxiously attached.
❤️🔥 You're too picky.
❤️🔥You expect too much.
❤️🔥There's something fundamentally wrong with you.
Let me be clear: there is nothing wrong with you.
You've just been taught all the wrong things about what it actually takes to create the kind of relationship you want. Here's what's really going on behind the scenes:
💜 You're analysing his behaviour instead of asking whether his behaviour works for you. You outsource your knowing. To your friends. To dating experts on YouTube. To what you think a "secure" woman would do. And the more voices you listen to, the harder it comes to hear your own.
💜 You're giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Because you've been told that secure women don't jump to conclusions and that everyone deserves a chance. So you keep explaining away the things that don't sit right with you - and give potential more weight than reality.
💜 You're trying to regulate yourself out of a legitimate response. You notice you're anxious, so you assume the problem is your attachment style. You tell yourself you're being triggered. Sometimes you are. But sometimes your nervous system is responding to something that's genuinely not working for you.
💜You're giving more weight to chemistry than compatibility. You feel attracted to someone once in a blue moon and so when someone finally comes along who you like - and the chemistry is intense - you start negotiating your non-negotiables and talking yourself into something that deep down, you already know can't meet your needs.
The House of Big Love was built to change all of that. So you can stop following someone else's rulebook for love and learn to know yourself, trust your gut, date with discernment and create relationships that are aligned with who you are and what you want.
You're in the right place if:
✔️ You're successful, self-aware and capable everywhere else - but love is the one area where you keep second-guessing yourself.
✔️ You can make big decisions at work, build a life you love and trust yourself in almost every area - then meet someone you really like and suddenly you're analysing texts and trying to decipher your intuition from your anxiety.
✔️ You've done therapy and understand your patterns but knowing better hasn't stopped you from overriding yourself when the chemistry is intense.
✔️ You keep negotiating your needs, standards or boundaries because you don't want to make the wrong decision.
✔️ You're tired of trying to work out how to be more desirable, more secure, less needy or more "chill" - when what you actually want is to feel completely at home in yourself and let the right relationship meet you there.
✔️ You want a relationship that feels as good as the rest of the life you've worked so hard to create but a part of you isn't sure it's even possible anymore.
✔️ You know you're done shrinking and abandoning yourself for love.
Let's get you into alignment with the Big Love you deserve.
The questions that live between you and the yes. Let's talk.
I'VE TRIED THERAPY AND READ ALL THE ATTACHMENT BOOKS. HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT?
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I'm worried I'm not "ready" for this level of work. How do I know if it's the right time?
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About your coach
Laura Forbes is a relationship coach and author of Quit Dating Idiots. For more than a decade, she'd helped women break the patterns that keep them disconnected from themselves - rebuilding self-trust, strengthening boundaries, and creating relationships and lives that feel aligned and fulfilling.
Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Laura helps women recognise what's pulling them out of alignment, reconnect with their own knowing, and stop overriding themselves around other people's expectations.
Her work combines coaching with deep emotional work to help women stop second-guessing themselves and make decisions that feel aligned with the life and love they've imagined.
